Exploring Narcissistic Traits: Understanding the Dark Energies Behind Manipulation and Control
Narcissism isn’t just about arrogance or selfishness—it’s a deep-seated disconnection from self and source. It thrives on fear, control, and energy extraction, leaving those around them drained and confused. Let’s break it down.
1. Loss of Awareness or Connection to Source
A narcissist has lost touch with their higher self, intuition, and any real sense of inner stability. This disconnect creates a void, which they attempt to fill by controlling others, rather than generating their own energy.
2. Need to Gain Resources from Others Without Empathy or Compassion
Because they don’t know how to self-sustain emotionally or energetically, narcissists take from others without care or conscience. Their relationships are purely transactional—what can you give them?
3. Rooted in Ancestral Wounds and Dark Energies
Narcissistic traits are not random—they are imprints passed down through ancestral DNA, generational trauma, and unresolved past-life entanglements with dark energies. These patterns are reinforced by environments that teach rejection, division, and survival-based control.
4. It Manifests Through Fear
Fear is the foundation of narcissistic behavior. They fear being exposed, losing control, and facing their own emptiness, so they construct false personas to mask their insecurities.
5. Gaslighting: The Ultimate Manipulation Tool
Gaslighting is their go-to tactic. It serves to: ✔ Discredit – Undermining your truth and intuition.
✔ Confuse – Making you doubt your own reality.
✔ Create self-blame – Shifting responsibility onto you.
✔ Control – Keeping you dependent on them.
✔ Gain false authority – Making themselves the “superior” figure in your life.
6. Narcissists Feed Off Empaths
Self-sacrificing intuitive empaths often attract narcissists, believing they can “rescue” them from their victim stories. But narcissists don’t seek healing—they seek energy. The empath gives, and the narcissist takes, leaving the empath drained.
7. Narcissists in the Workplace: Power and Status
At work, narcissists are not about teamwork—they’re about control, authority, and climbing the ladder at any cost. They manipulate, sabotage, and use others as stepping stones to maintain dominance.
8. Narcissistic Family Dynamics
In families, narcissism shows up as: ✔ Criticism – Nothing is ever good enough.
✔ Judgment – Every action is under scrutiny.
✔ Illogical expectations – No matter what you do, it’s never enough.
9. Narcissistic Friends: Energy Parasites
Not all friends are truly friends. Some are “frenemies”—parasitic relationships where they: ✔ Use you when they need something
✔ Compete in secret
✔ Subtly put you down to keep you feeling small
10. Creating Division to Weaken and Control
Narcissists thrive on division. They pit people against each other, create conflict, and isolate their victims. This keeps everyone distracted and weakened, making them easier to control.
11. Manipulating Through Fear, Guilt, and Obligation
Their strongest weapons: ✔ Fear – Keeping you anxious and uncertain.
✔ Guilt – Making you responsible for their emotions.
✔ Obligation – Forcing compliance by making you feel like you “owe” them.
12. Avoiding Accountability and Shifting Blame
A narcissist never takes real responsibility. Instead: ✔ They play the victim.
✔ They rewrite history to make others look like the problem.
✔ They use charm or anger to avoid consequences.
13. Dependency on External Validation
Because they have no true inner stability, they constantly seek external validation—admiration, control, or fear-based dominance. They need to be seen as superior because, deep down, they feel inferior.
Breaking Free
Understanding these traits allows you to see through the illusion and reclaim your energy.
✔ Trust your intuition. If it feels off, it is.
✔ Set clear boundaries—and enforce them.
✔ Detach emotionally. Narcissists feed off reactions—stop giving them yours.
✔ Surround yourself with strong, self-aware people.
✔ Walk away. The less you engage, the less power they have.
When you stop feeding their need for control, validation, and energy, they lose power over you. Freedom starts with awareness.
